Online Dating Blow Off – Why Doesn’t He Respond?

September 7th, 2010

www.askdanandjennifer.com We were chatting online and everything was great, but ever since I sent him my picture, he got “busy with work and family”. What’s really going on? Online Dating & Personals Tips and Advice from www.askdanandjennifer.com

25 Responses to “Online Dating Blow Off – Why Doesn’t He Respond?”

  1. BigAndTall666 says:

    He gave her the finger, EASY!

  2. MrCryptica82 says:

    Do any of YOU PEOPLE realize how corny you all sound, seriously, y’all are just amazing. Here’s a thought, try turning the damn computer off once in a while and actually going out into the real world and getting some sunlight on ya. Then, once you have emerged from your little batcaves and seen/felt the sun again in your lives, try actually getting to know other people around you, scary concept for alot of you yo-yo’s I am sure but you’d be surprised at what you find if ya just try it peace out.

  3. MrCryptica82 says:

    Do any of YOU PEOPLE realize how corny you all sound, seriously, y’all are just amazing. Here’s a thought, try turning the damn computer off once in a while and actually going out into the real world and getting some sunlight on ya. Then, once you have emerged from your little batcaves and seen/felt the sun again in your lives, try actually getting to know other people around you, scary concept for alot of you yo-yo’s I am sure but you’d be surprised at what you find if ya just try it peace out.

  4. zewarlock says:

    @kbs1664 Sorry bro but if you did that with online dating you’d have to date more than 100 ppl every week. You’re system to trim down the amount is by looks you know how u look n u know the range u want to get. if your a 8/1- ull want from 6-8.5

  5. gurlfromcali2007 says:

    good advice. but what if someone had a picture of only their body without a face

  6. mercyhurstchic says:

    I don’t do online dating. I would never do it! I hear too many bad stories. I am not that desperate to find a man.

  7. KatieHunter723 says:

    Good points here. Attraction is a tricky thing and as mentioned its always better to use a photo in your profile than to send it later. If someone responds to you, you know that you may be their “type” up front.

  8. IRONMAIDENFAN2006 says:

    it should be how come she dosent respond

  9. IRONMAIDENFAN2006 says:

    it should be how come she dosent respond the bitch

  10. wadehjb says:

    A lot of people won’t want to hear this, but good looks are important to a lot of people and we can’t choose to be attracted to someone just cos they’re nice people. Attractive people do better in dating and life in general. It’s not fair, but that’s life.

    But what’s stopping you from making the most of yourself? If you’re overweight, diet and exercise. If you’re dowdy, get some new clothes, use a tanning bed and improve your image. If you’re a skinny guy, look into weight training.

  11. kbs1664 says:

    I find when you get to know someone and you admire them for who they are, regardless if they’re ugly or not you will find them attractive. The majority of people out there don’t have this mindset or want to give it a chance. Such a shame…a lot of missed opportunities

  12. videogamester07 says:

    @kbs1664 women like that make me sick. They think one day a Brad Pitt-Tom cruise type guy is going to magically show up on a dating site and sweep them off their feet. It’s ridiculous you have to be famous or handsome to get their attention. You got to find women who will love you for who you are, inside and out.

  13. kbs1664 says:

    haha…I actually tried this to see what happened. I sent pictures the first time of myself, I’m just an average looking guy. A few girls actually wanted to be friends. A ton blew me off though. I sent pics of what would be a dream guy to most girls and all of them wanted to meet up in less than a week…but I didn’t change my personality. In fact I think I just copied and pasted most of my emails!

  14. Grapes428 says:

    I agree with hisham. People are based on looks. That’s what online dating is, screening potential bfs/gfs or husbands/wives. Women want the pics to go with what they are hearing from you. They obviously paid to do online dating for a reason. People want options, they still would like to talk to someone on the side even if life isn’t going well at that time. I’m tired of women expecting the perfect looking guy. You can’t have your cake and eat it too.

  15. hisham175 says:

    Of course its a blow off. Unfortunately ppl these days are looking for good looking (Hot) ppl and even if their personality sucks they will put up with it because the other person looks hot they don’t want to be alone period. Unless you are seriously into personality this is the truth for both men and women these days, its a crewel world we are in!!!!!!!!

  16. videogamester07 says:

    Here’s a trick to find out if the man/woman isn’t interested in you and is just making excuses……

    Let’s say a person claims she or he is “too busy” after seeing your picture….okay, create another account and put up a “hot” picture of another person. If the same person replys back REALLY quick and talks to the “fake” you EVERYDAY, but keeps ignoring the “real” you…….move on! there’s plenty of fish.

  17. punkofmudd says:

    as a girl myself even I just search profiles with pictures. if they aren’t hideous and match my criteria i’ll def. send them an email. they’re right not to put all ur egss in one basket

  18. VictusDwayne says:

    Dan & Jenn, i couldn’t agree more, thank you for posting this video!

  19. AntiVaccine says:

    Refuse vaccines, they contain aluminum, mercury, MSG, aspartame/formaldehyde, squalene etc that cause diseases such as lupus, arthritus, Gulf War Synrdrome, Guillain-Barre, Parkinson’s, Alzheimer’s, ADD/ADHD, autism, asthma, cancer etc. Now the WHO is pushing for 4.9 billion H1N1 vaccines to be made and used worldwide that may just have nanochips in them.

  20. hisham175 says:

    plenty of fish also sucks!

  21. secretsocietywinks says:

    I’m on okcupid and you’re forever seeing journal and forum threads about this issue! You get sick of saying the same thing over and over:
    Okcupid users have lives that have nothing to do with being an online entity, ergo, they aren’t going to be there all the time ready to feed someones insecurities. some seem to forget that they’re not just some e-entities waiting for you to contact them. Be patient or get over it and move on is what I say!

  22. lisasummings says:

    How I met my hawt g/f on KissKnot d0t c0m

  23. Infineon77 says:

    is the letter wirting woman that stoopid….of course that’s a grade A blow off……in fact I”ve used that one myself

  24. isabngeryer says:

    Nice try. Keep it up check out esteembpo + com for social media marketing. gkjnhj

  25. TashaFaun says:

    I love how people expect you to be psychic, not just relationship experts! Will I win the lottery guys???? LOL

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